If you show up at a boy’s house to ‘chill’ and the suns not out, and its past [let’s say…] 12 a.m., then don’t play coy when he eventually asks you to take you pants off.
Plutonic friends don’t show up at each other’s homes late at night just to ‘hang out’, that’s a recipe for
sex disaster. The sheer fact that you agreed to show up that late triggers a thought in the male brain that ‘maybe she’s on the same page’ and ‘I could probably, if I play my cards right, get some tonight’.
If he makes a move on you after you’ve put yourself in this situation, don’t blame him because he simply confused you with a trick or a scaly-wag aka someone who is loose and prone to accepting sexual advances. You can’t blame him because only tricks and scaly-wags show up at the hLome/dorm to ‘chill’ at 12 in the morning.
Moreover, you can’t salvage your dignity or self-respect by dropping those oft used lines, such as:
“I don’t usually do this”
Rrrrrrrrrright – you knew damn well what was gonna go down before you got there, that’s why you came in the first place. But if you must, make him work for it – you’ll feel less cheap that way.