August 2009
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“Allowing someone to protect you doesn’t make you weak. It makes you...”
Abuse
If he hits you once, he’s going to hit you again; no measure of ‘I’m sorry’s’ or ‘I didn’t know what I was doing’s’ will fix that. Once a man takes a conscious step towards crossing the line between treating a woman like a woman and treating her like a punching bag, there is NO coming back. Love does not justify black-eyes and beating. Love does not justify verbal abuse. Love does not justify...
Club Etiquette #2: Bar-dancing
As guys we love it when you climb the bar and “dance” seductively. It is even more entertaining when the girl on the bar dancing doesn’t know how to dance and all she does is flash her panties, that is if she’s wearing any. It gets all the more interesting though when she slips on melted ice and cracks her head on the concrete (seriously, I’ve seen it happen).
I saw all that to say this: dancing...
“A guy who thinks he is prettier than you will treat you in exactly that manner”
Club Etiquette: Drinks
If a stranger buys you drinks at a club, know his intentions. No matter how smooth or clean he tries to play it off, his main goal is to sleep with you. Regardless of whether he approaches you via the friend method, the sleaze-bag method, or the ‘I-have-a lot-of-money’ method – the desired result is always the same. This by no means implies one should stop accepting drinks. It simply means know...
July 2009
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What do men want, #2
Its actually rather simple. Every man wants a girl who …
1. Hears him when he speaks
2. Listen to his kind of music, but has the courage to introduce him to something new
3. Laugh at his jokes, even if they are completely and utterly retarded
4. Waits to reason before telling him he is wrong
5. Trusts him first, above all else
6. Doesn’t seek to change him, even if he is utterly...
“Good guys usually have sisters”
– ~V.
What do men want?
“In a relationship, a man has two main needs: companionship and yes you’ve guessed it, sex! With regards to sex, it’s more than looks that drives men wild, it’s attitude. He wants a woman to captivate his imagination. Someone confident who wants him as much as he wants her. Someone that will tease him, force him to chase her and...
The International Man of Mystery
Never date the international man of mystery. No matter how appealing, you will always get screwed [and not in the good way]. For men like this a woman is simply a fad, a fancy that will soon pass when he encounters the next one. When this happens, all the love that you thought you had will be lost once he leaves and you realize that it was all one sided.
Guys that fit into this category...
Tattoos, #2 ~ courtesy of: 'theyounggentleman'
Dear Young Gentleman,
What are your views on tattoos?
I have written on this before, but feel we can address it again.
Personally I do not like tattoos for me. They would not look good on me. Others though can pull it off and still have them look nice. Certain tattoos will never look good on a gentleman, like anything tribal, chinese characters, mom, hearts, the Ed Hardy logo, etc.
Tattoos...
“Marry the man who loves you more than you love him”
– unknown
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Tattoos
Please tattoo tastefully.
‘Thug-life’ and ‘Stuntin’ like me’ have no place on a females body
Neither does the name of your city/high school/baby’s fathers
Club Etiquette #1
If you eye a guy in the club that you are interested in but, when he walks over to meet you, act as if you don’t know why he’s there, don’t be surprised if he ends up enjoying the night with someone else.
A club is no place to send mixed signals or play hard to get it – this is by no means meant to encourage ho-trickery.
~Lu
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“A woman’s life is love, a man’s love it life”
– Phonte
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Late night visits
If you show up at a boy’s house to ‘chill’ and the suns not out, and its past [let’s say…] 12 a.m., then don’t play coy when he eventually asks you to take you pants off.
Plutonic friends don’t show up at each other’s homes late at night just to ‘hang out’, that’s a recipe for sex disaster. The sheer fact that you agreed to show up that late triggers a thought in the male brain that ‘maybe she’s...
“Don’t trust a man that acts like he has done this before and knows exactly what...”
– My Ona. I miss her. I should of taken her advice lol (via konroy)
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Condoms
Always, always, always use contraception
Doesn’t matter if he tells you he loves you
Doesn’t matter if he tells you he’s clean
One of the most dangerous habits one can fall into is unprotected sex
I can guarantee that if you catch a disease, he will be the first to state that he didn’t give it to you
Moreover, guys can easily wash their hands from a situation when it affects the female body and...
Ultimatums
Ultimatums are like grenades, they very often blow up in your face
Don’t force a guy to choose between you and something else because he will almost, always, pick the wrong option.
Why? Because he knows you damn near love him enough to give him a second chance, and even if he picks his boys, sports, clubbing, or even the other girl, you’ll still be around and you’ll still be willing to pick up the...
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Friends With Benefits
You can’t have sex with a guy for a long period of time without rules or regulations; otherwise you will become just nothing more than friends with benefits. Some girls might not mind this, some guys might enjoy this, this might be the goal in mind; but those of you thinking of a different end-game might want to step up to the plate. Many times, girls will be with a guy without attachment under...
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Inside Dates
You are in a relationship, or so you think, and the two of you have been ‘talking’ for some time. You think you’re dating him and, for the most part, you’re pretty sure he is dating you back. BUT all your dates are composed of time spent on the couch and time spent in the bedroom at your house or his.
What’s wrong with this picture?
Insight: the girl a guy keeps solely in his apartment or her...
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Good girls do it slow, Bad girls do it fast
I don’t understand why you want more from me [love] when the first time I met you it was purely sexual [lust]. First impressions paint a thousand words, so with that being said what you did with me on the first night you probably did to someone else. A man needs to know that it takes more that liquor and lust to get into a woman’s pants if this is the woman he intends to be with. So it’s not an...